HAPPINESS Rev. F. E. GYLLENHAAL 1936
NEW CHURCH LIFE
VOL. LVI JANUARY, 1936 No.
"And the nations were angry, and Thy wrath is come, and the time of the dead, that they should be judged, and that Thou shouldest give reward unto Thy servants the prophets, and to the saints, and them that fear Thy name, small and great; and shouldest destroy them which destroy the earth." (Revelation 11:18.)
We propose to consider especially the internal meaning of the words, the time is come "that Thou shouldest give reward unto Thy servants the prophets, and to the saints, and them that fear Thy name, small and great." The internal meaning of these words is, that after the last judgment the Lord raises up into heaven all spirits who are in the truths of doctrine and in a life according to them, and also all spirits who worship the Lord, whatever their religion may be. Heavenly happiness is the reward given to them. Heavenly happiness is the supreme Divine gift. And we propose to examine what heavenly happiness is, and to inquire whether we can receive a portion of heavenly happiness while we still live in the world.
The essence of the Lord's love, we are told, or the distinguishing quality which makes it Divinely human, is threefold, namely, that the Lord loves others outside of Himself, that He desires to be one with them, and that He desires to make them happy from Himself. (T. C. R. 43.) As the Lord perpetually desires to make men, spirits, and angels happy by what goes forth from Himself and can be received by them, we may be sure that it is possible for us to receive happiness, to taste it here on earth, and even to be the means of imparting it to others. For we can receive the Lord's love, and can make it as it were our own. His love is our life; but the form or state of the spirit and mind in each one of us modifies the Lord's love, and presents it, as we manifest it, nearly or remotely as it is in itself, or else other than it is in itself, that is, opposite to what the Lord's love is in itself.
We are doubly assured, then, of the possibility of happiness,-assured of it by the fact that the Lord's love is such as to make us happy, and by the further fact that our own love can be such as to make others happy. This love which we call ours is not actually ours, but we can have it as if it were our own. If we do not pervert it, this love proceeds from the Lord through us to others, and then it carries in its bosom the Divine gift of happiness, or the Divine life-force which makes others happy. If it is purely received, it produces happiness in the recipient. If it is purely transmitted, it also produces happiness in those who receive it.
We are taught that the "reward given to the prophets and saints, and those who fear the Lord's name," is salvation, and thus heaven. But we are further taught that this "reward" is the delight, happiness, and blessedness that is in the love or affection of good and truth. Those who do good and speak truth from a love of good and truth, thus from the Lord, and not from themselves, will receive this reward; and with them it is not a reward of merit, but a reward of grace. (A. E. 695:2.) By Divine grace is meant all that is given from the Lord to those who love good and truth for the sake of good and truth, and not for the sake of any reward. (A. E. 22.) To them a reward is indeed given, but they have not sought it, nor have they thought about it. Receiving the reward, they still do not think of it as a reward, but as a Divine gift, a Divine blessing. It produces in the inmosts of their spirits a sense of contentment and peace, which descends through the mind and produces joy and delight there; and in the body it is felt as pleasure. This is the reward which the Lord meant when He said, "Love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest." (Luke 6:35.)
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We perceive, now, that it is from the Lord's love of making man happy that there is derived the common conception that the highest good for man is happiness, and also the common desire of human beings to be happy. But the common conception of happiness as the highest good has been obscured by the further common conception that happiness is an end to be sought. It is thought to be a reward of merit. This thought prevents the reception of happiness. If sought, it can never be found, can never be gained, because then the life of man is not attuned to its reception. Happiness is the highest good, but it is a good Divinely bestowed upon those who shun evils because they are evils, and do goods because they are goods. And the common desire to be happy is to be directed to the unselfish efforts of service which make others happy and this without thought of a reward of merit for the service performed.
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Happiness, then, is a quality in Divine love, a quality constant in Divine love, although our consciousness of it is not constant; in fact, is rather infrequent in this world. It is a quality which can affect us whenever we are so disposed as to be affected by it. For love has within it innumerable qualities capable of affecting man, and man becomes conscious of one or another of them as by suitable preparation he is disposed to a consciousness of them. The blood in the body is a correspondent of level for it is the life of the body, as love is the life of the spirit. Within the blood are innumerable qualities which variously affect the body and its organs, viscera, and members. A knowledge of those qualities is obtainable by man, but consciousness of any one of them is so subtle as to defy adequate description, although they may be perceived or felt.
The innumerable qualities in love form the subject of this teaching in the Writings: "Everyone has all his delight, joyousness, and happiness from his ruling love, and according to it; for man calls that delight which he loves, because he feels it; but he may also call delight that which he thinks and does not love, but it is not the delight of his life. The delight of love is that which is good to a man; and undelight is evil to him." (N. 58.)
That which is genuinely delight, joyousness, and happiness is from the Divine love.
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Because Divine love has those qualities, all love has either the same qualities or qualities that seem like the genuine ones, and therefore are called by the same names. In reality love is infinitely one. And there is an actual difference between all the derivatives of love. The recipient vessels manifest love's distinct qualities. The differences range from the highest to the lowest of that which is good and genuine, and also from the least to the greatest of that which is opposite to the genuine and the good. Therefore it is said that every ruling love has its qualities, imparting delight, joyousness, and happiness. And these seem to be the qualities even of evil love, by reason of the Lord's perpetual mercy, permitting the evil a life and love which seems to be their very own, and satisfying their corrupt desires. There could not be even the semblance of human life, if this were not permitted. There could be no free will, if this were not permitted. But this permission is, let us say, the extreme of Divine mercy, and not its inmost. Divine mercy, in its higher ranges, provides that man may know that there are opposites, and the nature of opposites. It provides that men, by their understanding faculty, may know that what seems like happiness is not true happiness, and further, that a new will implanted in the understanding faculty may be guided by the understanding, and so shun all that which opposes the means leading to true happiness.
The origin and source of happiness, and the manner in which it comes to our consciousness, is taught in these words of our Doctrine: "Delights of the soul are in themselves imperceptible blessedness; but they become more and more perceptible as they descend into the thoughts of the mind, and from these into the sensations of the body. In the thoughts of the mind they are perceived as happiness, in the sensations of the body as delights, and in the body itself as pleasures. From the pleasures, delights, and happinesses (when they are subordinated in true order, and purified by the shunning of evils as sins against God) is eternal happiness." (C. L. 162.) And again we read: "Every love with man breathes out delight, by which it makes itself felt. Every love breathes delight, first into the spirit, and thence into the body. And the delight of man's love, together with the pleasantness of the thought, makes his life." (T. C. R. 569.)
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The Divine doctrine concerning happiness should encourage us, and so should strengthen us in our efforts to regenerate. We see and hear about so much misery in the world, and we ourselves often seem to experience so much misery, that we become discouraged, and doubt the beneficence of Divine Providence. Perhaps we seek happiness, strive for it for a time, and, because we fail to gain it, lose faith in Divine Providence. The preferred truth concerning the error of our ways often is unacceptable and seems to us at such times devoid of any helping sympathy. How are such states to be dealt with? What truly helping sympathy can be given that will be acceptable!
The truth alone can make us free, can free us from our states of despondency and despair, can give us light in our darkness and gloom. And knowledge of the truth about happiness should halt our vain pursuit of happiness as an end, and direct our energies to the doing of that which will surely result in happiness, coming to us as a reward of grace. When we cease to lament the lack of happiness, and turn our thoughts and endeavors toward a service to the neighbor; when we learn to love the neighbor as we love ourselves, and even more than we love ourselves; when we strive to make others happy, and sincerely delight in their happiness; then we shall become increasingly conscious of peace of mind, of contentment with our lot, and so shall be ourselves made happy by the Lord's love as it freely operates in us and through us to the realization of His purposes.
Our consciousness of such happiness can only be internal, because it is a Divine gift. It can only be momentary in this world, because our life here is only one of preparation for eternal life. But even if we do not experience genuine happiness, which is heavenly happiness, or if we think we do not experience it, yet hope of it is given in the Word of God. This may seem only a hope, but as we diligently read the Word of God, and faithfully live according to it,-as we learn its doctrine and grow to love it,-the hope becomes reality, whether we recognize it as such or not. For the hope is the essential of the thing itself; it is the thing itself dimly visualized,-a ray of light which leads us ever onward to it, an attractive force which draws us steadily upward to the plane of spiritual consciousness.
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The Lord's love is a mighty stream, upon the banks of which we stand, uncertain whether to embark upon it or not. But if we do embark upon it, we shall be borne safely to the heavenly kingdom, where the common life of all angelic souls is one of heavenly joy and eternal happiness. Amen.
LESSONS: Psalm 72; Revelation XI; T. C. R. 43.
HYMNS: LITURGY, pages 521, 557, 595.
PRAYERS: Liturgy, nos. 32, 176, 86.