FORGETFULNESS OF SELF WILLARD D. PENDLETON 1976
NEW CHURCH LIFE
VOL. XCVI JANUARY, 1976
No. 1
And Joseph called the name of . . . [his] firstborn Manasseh: For God, said he, hath made me to forget all my toil, and all my father's house. Genesis 41:51.
Christian scholars have long recognized that the story of Joseph as recounted in Scripture presents the supreme prototype of the Lord who was to come. This is evident both in the life and the representation of the man. Here was a, man without blemish and a man who, despite all that he suffered, never lost faith in the God of his fathers.
While yet a youth, Joseph suffered the extreme of disillusionment. Prompted by jealousy, his own brothers plotted against his life. Had it not been for Reuben, the eldest brother, they would have slain him in the wilderness. As it was, however, they sold him into slavery, knowing full well that those who went down into the slave pits of Egypt did not reappear.
On arriving in Egypt, Joseph was sold to Potiphar, the captain of Pharoah's guard. A lad of unusual gifts, he soon became overseer of his master's estates; and the measure of Potiphar's confidence in Joseph is expressed in the statement that Potiphar, "knew not that he had, save the bread which he did eat."*
* Genesis 39:6
It is not improbable that during these years of servitude Joseph had reason to hope that the reward for his service would in time be his freedom, but due to the duplicity of Potiphar's wife, he was rejected by his master and cast into prison. Under such circumstances we would expect that Joseph's hope of deliverance would have given way to despair, but even in the close confinement of the prison house, he found purpose in life. Betrayed by his own brothers, forgotten by all save an aged father who believed he was dead, rejected by the one man who had befriended him, what reason did he have for hope? Like Him of whom the prophet Isaiah spoke in later days, "He [was] despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief."* Yet despite the apparent hopelessness of his situation, Joseph did not give way to that sense of futility which embitters the spirit. In the service of his fellow prisoners, who were the condemned of the earth, he sustained his faith.
* Isaiah 53:3
In an age in which many are afflicted by that sense of futility which is the logical consequence of a material explanation of life, we can readily understand why so many have adopted the modern existential thesis that apart from survival there is no meaning in human existence. The result of this is the gradual abandonment of those basic values which have their origin in faith, and an increasing preoccupation with self. Yet in his concern for self, man must logically ask, "What is self?" Is it an unexplainable combination of physical forces which somehow add up to the individual's awareness of being, or is it a manifestation of a deeper reality which has both meaning and purpose? To men of faith the latter is the only logical explanation, and in the pursuit of wisdom, our search must ultimately lead to the knowledge and understanding of self.
In order to understand one's self, however, man must first be brought to the acknowledgment that of himself he is evil and that the Lord alone is good. This is the teaching of all Divine revelation, but few at this day believe it. The reason for this is that man is created into the appearance of self life and his natural tendency is to think and act from the appearance. Yet the truth is that man does not live from himself; in all that he does, he is dependent upon the Lord. Of himself man can do nothing, and insofar as he does what is good, he does not do it from himself but from the Lord. It is nowhere said, therefore, that man cannot do good; what is said is that man cannot do good from himself, but he can do good from the Lord.
It is then from the Word, and from no other source, that man is enabled to enter with understanding into the nature of self. It is to be noted, however, that the love of self is not necessarily evil, for this love, as every other love with man, is in its origin from the Lord. Yet if in his freedom to think and act as he wills, man ascribes to himself what is his from the Lord, he turns what is good into what is evil in himself. This is the origin of all evil.*
* CL 444
It is then in ascribing what is good to himself that man inverts and perverts the use which self is intended to serve. This use is that through self, not from self, man may be of use to others.
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Nowhere is this more apparent than in those human relationships which are basic to all social order. Take, for example, the institution of marriage. Here is a human relationship which was ordained by God from the beginning in order that there may be a heaven from the human race. Unless this use is seen and acknowledged, the sanctity of marriage cannot be perceived, and the Divine purpose in marriage is subjected to the interests of self. When this takes place, as it inevitably does whenever we lose sight of the Divine purpose in marriage, man turns what is good from the Lord into what is evil in himself; that is to say, into what is selfish.
Such is the nature of man, however, that he cannot shun what is evil in self from himself, but he can, if he will, shun what is evil from the Lord. This is the reason why the Word has been given. It is by means of the Word, that is, by means of the truths of the Word, that a new will, which is the will to do good, is formed in the understanding. It is this new will which is represented in our text by Manasseh.* The origin of this will is found in those states of innocence which are provided by the Lord during infancy and childhood; hence the story of Joseph begins while he was yet a lad. The innocence of childhood, however, cannot be sustained; as the love of self becomes calculating, the thought of the mind is bound by sensual appearances and, like Joseph, is cast into a pit in the wilderness; that is, into a state in which man is deprived of spiritual life. But the Lord is with man, even as He was with Joseph. By means of instruction from the Word, that is, by means of the spiritual sense of the Word, the way is opened whereby man may yet be delivered from the appearance of self life by which the spirit is bound.
* AC 5353
Once man is brought under the government of truth, he is afflicted by temptations. To understand this, we must first understand what temptations are. As defined in the Writings, temptations are doubts concerning the end in view;* indeed, it is said that, "If the end which is loved were not put in doubt and indeed in despair, there would be no temptation."**
* AC 1820
** Ibid
The end in view is a life of unselfish devotion to use; this is the ideal which the Writings set before us. Yet when we reflect upon the nature of self and the insistent demands which it makes upon us, we are afflicted by the appearance that we cannot sustain what the Lord asks of us. Like the Psalmist, we say, "Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high, I cannot attain unto it."*
* Psalm 139:6
As in all appearances, however, there is a truth involved in man's conviction of his own inadequacy. The truth is that of himself man cannot rise above self, even as water cannot rise above its own source.
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So it is that in all temptation man's natural inclination is to give way to despair; but: although from self, man cannot cope with self, he can, if he will, turn to the Lord. It is not man; it is the Lord who conquers in temptation. Hence the teaching of the Writings that, "The Lord alone sustains the combats of temptations, and . . . [He] alone can conquer the hells."* As Moses said to the Children of Israel who feared pursuit by the armies of Egypt, "Fear not . . . the Lord shall fight for you";** and as the Lord said to His disciples, "And I, if I be lifted up from the earth, will draw all men unto Me."***
* AC 8175
** Exodus 14:13, 14
*** John 12:32
Generally speaking, we think of temptations as trials of the will, and it is true that in all spiritual temptations it is the will to do good that is tried. But as man cannot do good from himself, his natural tendency is to yield in temptation and to accept as inevitable the implications of self life. But although man cannot do good from himself, he can, if he will, do good from the Lord. All that the Lord requires of man is that we, "Seek the Lord while He may be found; [and] call upon Him while He is near."* Yet in his preoccupation with self man does not find the Lord's yoke easy nor His burden light.** The subordination of self to the good of use requires a lifetime of patient acceptance of a providence which regards man's temporal hopes and ambitions only insofar as they agree with what is eternal.***
* Isaiah 55:6
** Matthew 11:30
*** DP 214
Of all the stories of the Old Testament, there is none which so beautifully illustrates the leading of the Lord's Divine providence as this. Set against a, background of jealousy and hatred, of greed and deceit, the Joseph of our text emerges as a man who, despite all that he suffered, sustained his faith in the Lord's Divine mercy. In this he serves, in the sense of the letter, as an example to all men; for while it is true that man's faith is tried in many ways, the ultimate test is the spirit in which we accept the leading of the Lord's Divine providence. In reflecting on this, we must bear in mind that the Lord's way is not our way and, in accepting His way, we must do so without bitterness or regret.
In all that he does, the natural tendency of every man is to become absorbed in himself. Yet when man thinks and acts from self, he cannot perceive what is involved in the teaching that the Lord looks only to what is eternal and to temporal and natural things only insofar as they agree with eternal things. The reason for this is that while we may intellectually perceive and acknowledge the truth of the doctrine, what we do not perceive is what is required of man in the application of the doctrine to the life of self. There are times, therefore, when it requires a supreme effort of the will to say in our hearts, "Thy will be done."
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This is the primary issue in all temptation. It is not that we doubt the truth of the Word but that we lack faith in the Lord's Divine providence. Were this not so, man would not be afflicted; that is to say, he would not suffer from those states of despair in which the spirit seems bound as if in a prison. Our difficulty at all times is to see what is of providence in our own lives, be it an act of providence or a permission; far all that takes place is in the Lord's hand, and this as to each least particular. Yet it is a law of the Divine providence that nothing of its operation should be evident to man's perception. Yet we are told that he should know about it and acknowledge it;* for if it were otherwise, man could not act from freedom in accordance with reason.** But although man cannot see providence as it occurs, he can see it in retrospect. So it was that when the days of his servitude were past, "Joseph called the name of [his] first-born [son] Manasseh: For God, said he, hath made me to forget all my toil, and all my father's house."
* DP 175
** DP 176
The name Manasseh is derived from the Hebrew verb meaning "to cause to forget." Nowhere in Scripture is the delight of use more beautifully expressed. What is described here is that sense of peace which comes with the forgetfulness of self. That is why the ancients adopted the name Manasseh to represent the state of the regenerate will. As no other word, it suggests the blessing of a peace which is free from the insistent demands of self. He who is free from concern for self in the performance of use is free indeed. Not only is he free from the continual frustrations that the thought of self induces upon the mind but also from those miserable states of dissatisfaction which deprive man of all normal delight in the uses of life. It was not without reason, therefore, that, "Joseph called the name of [his] first-born [son) Manasseh," for in the elevation of the spirit out of the life of self, man enters into a new state in which the providence by which he has been led is seen and acknowledged, and the toil and stress of former states are forgotten in the joy of his Lord. Amen.
LESSONS: Genesis 39:1-23; 41:46-57; Arcana Coelestia 5352, 5353.
MUSIC: Liturgy, pages 495, 446, 520, 464.
PRAYERS: Liturgy, nos. 12, 70.
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